Design Win-Win Deal
URL: https://quantcodedenny.com/posts/design-win-win/
Working deeply in ML Infra (like Meta or Google) can make your skills feel too specialized. You solve critical problems — but the broader market may not see your full capability. The key is to grow visibility and generalize impact organically, through habits you already do daily.
Understanding Interests vs. Positions
*TODO: Expand with real-life examples
- Positions are what people say they want.
- Interests are why they want it.
- Asking “why” questions helps uncover underlying motivations.
Expanding the Pie: Creating Value
- Brainstorm multiple solutions before negotiating.
- Focus on solutions that cost you little but help the other party.
- Example: If your team needs resources and leadership wants fast delivery, explore temporary staffing or automation.
Strategic Concessions
- Trade things that are low cost for you but high value for them.
- Always aim to ask for something in return.
- Example: “I can support your project if you help me with X later.”
Framing Shared Wins
- Explicitly show benefits for all parties.
- Practice drafting talking points or emails that highlight mutual gains.
- Example: “This approach reduces errors for your team and meets our deadlines.”
Practice in Low-Stakes Environments
- Apply the principles to family decisions, small purchases, or team tasks.
- Treat each negotiation as a mini-experiment.
- Reflect: Did both sides feel good? Could more value have been created?
Post-Mortem and Continuous Improvement
- Keep a Win-Win Journal: 1–2 entries per week.
- Analyze:
- Interests of both sides
- Value created
- Satisfaction of both parties
- Lessons for next time
Tools and Frameworks
- BATNA – Know your alternatives.
- ZOPA – Identify the zone of possible agreement.
- Principled Negotiation – Fisher & Ury’s Getting to Yes framework.
TODO Future Improvements
- Add real-life case studies.
- Include examples from work and family scenarios.
- Add diagrams showing negotiation flow.
Conclusion
Practicing win-win deals is a skill that compounds over time. By focusing on interests, creating value, and reflecting continuously, you can negotiate outcomes that strengthen relationships and achieve shared success.
By [dennyzhang]
read moreDoc Reading With LLM
URL: https://quantcodedenny.com/posts/doc-reading-with-llm
Set LLM context
You are my research assistant for machine learning infra reliablity and DevX
I will give you one or more internal documents. Your job is to extract only the high-value information that matters for:
- Reliability / SEV prevention / Infra stability
- Market-value impact (cost savings, latency, efficiency, quality, risk reduction)
- PE-leveraged opportunities (root-causes across teams, systemic gaps, blindspots, unclear ownership, missing guardrails)
For each document, output:
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Key Signals (must-know, <10 bullets)
By [dennyzhang]
read morePersonal Top Priority
URL: https://quantcodedenny.com/posts/personal-top-priority/
🌟 Vision
Live a healthy, confident, and wealthy life — balanced across family, personal growth, and financial freedom. Focus on high-leverage actions and eliminate noise.
🎯 Key Objectives (FCM)
1. Family — Build a Healthy and Happy Family
- Stay emotionally connected with kids and spouse
- Maintain routines for health and stress management
Daily / Weekly Goals
- 15–30 min 1:1 focused play with kids (3x/week)
- Evening family meal without devices (2x/week)
- Weekly 30-min sync with spouse to review week and connect
- Exercise 2–3x per week, sleep 7h/night
- Plan 1 weekend activity per month with family
- Avoid overthinking or struggling too long in dead ends
2. Confidence — Strengthen Personal and Professional Growth
- Increase professional market value
- Improve appearance and communication skills
- Build meaningful, positive connections
Daily / Weekly Goals
By [dennyzhang]
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